Everyday Ubuntu

Book by Mungi Ngomane (2019)

The granddaughter of Archbishop Desmond Tutu introduces readers to Ubuntu, a Southern African philosophy that means “I am because you are,” through 14 simple lessons and reflections. Each chapter features stories of kindness, forgiveness, listening, and community from South Africa’s journey, along with practical exercises (such as writing a gratitude note to someone or truly listening to a coworker) to help you live out Ubuntu in daily life. This book exudes warmth and inclusivity. It’s essentially a handbook for compassionate connection, rooted in the ancestral wisdom of the Black diaspora (Archbishop Tutu’s voice echoes throughout). The tone is non-academic, richly human, with full-colour photographs and storytelling that inspires the reader to see others through the lens of our shared humanity. For someone feeling depleted, the message that we are all interdependent can be deeply affirming. It reminds us to both seek support and offer it, because we “build bridges, not walls” in a healthy community. It’s culturally aware (honouring African knowledge) yet universally approachable. Ngomane asks, “Who is your ‘tribe’ of support, and how can you show up for each other more fully?” This can spark readers to identify or cultivate their circle of connection. Learn more about Mungy, her work, and the book here.